It has come with a gigantic explosion right in the comfort of my own home. How could this be? This is my sanctuary, yet this mythological beast has risen and has invaded our quiet space. I have a feeling instead of resisting, that we must just endure, pray, have patience, and pray some more until it vacates the premises. What is this horrible creature? It is a slamming of the door, an ignored request, a pout, lots of tears, and a stamping of the foot. And to sum it up…someone is practicing up for the pros…her teenage years!
I tried to warn her, I tried to tell her, to give her my great knowledge of things you must avoid to get through these treacherous times, so how could she just pass over this deep wisdom I have bestowed upon her?
All right, before you laugh, let me set up the scenario. My daughter was hurt when her secret was revealed by a new friend. Oh, the horror, the drama, the tears!! And then she fell into the trap of speaking angrily about her to another friend through an email. How could my daughter use the word, “hate?”
Didn’t she remember the rule? The rule…everyone knows the rule…If you can’t say something nice then don’t say anything at all! Or my other rule, never put in writing something that could hurt others or yourself? How could she not remember? I even gave her an example when I was young and got caught by a letter that was passed when I was mad at someone who hurt my feelings. I had to learn my lesson so she could skip this one. My past was supposed to shield her from such incidents. Yet, she chose to learn her own lesson. And I tried so hard to instill kindness in my children when speaking about others. How did I fail?
I think how often God teaches us lessons through the bible, yet we do the same things. We make mistakes and have to learn the hard way. I can see God saying, “These were written down so you wouldn’t have to make the same mistakes…Joseph bragging to his brothers, David stealing another’s wife, and the unforgiveness of Jonah. What are you doing?”
The bible is filled with lessons to help us with our lives. So why do we ignore it? I suppose there are some things we just need to learn on our own. It is the only way we can grow in wisdom and learn to rely only on God, (especially when we make mistakes). It is nice to know that no matter the trouble we get ourselves into he continues to love us. That is a pretty great feeling. So for now, wish me luck with this new assault on my home. Oh, and by the way, do you have any aspirin?
Proverbs 16:24 – Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.