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Written By: Amy Beth Williams
As I was brushing my teeth this morning, I was reminded of the prolonged season in my childhood, or let’s say near decade, of wearing braces. You know, silver kind that could land a plane in the middle of a lightening storm.
When I was a kid, I hated going to the dentist, okay loathed it. To the point where my mom wouldn’t tell me we were going until we pulled into the parking lot because she knew I would worry myself sick for days, weeks and even months leading up to the impending doom. But the day would eventually come. I was in fourth grade this one particular surprise visit when I saw the dreaded dentist sign. I swallowed hard as we walked up to the cold brick building with the sterile door and sterile people inside wearing white coats sitting behind the sterile counter, I could hear the sound of taps playing in my head. A death march as it seemed to my 10-year-old understanding. The endless appointment was an assault with various silver instruments (weapons as I like to call them) and unending torture. Peering into my mouth, the dentist’s eyes widened as though he was staring at a burn victim. I remember him over-analyzing my bite and my newly emerging adult front teeth. My mouth was an abyss of misfit teeth and a jaw that didn’t get the memo of how big my teeth would be to accommodate them. He pulled my mom out of the room to “discuss” the matter. I could only hear scattered words that included “extraction…under bite, correction and other alarming adjectives and verbs. I wanted to escape but the chair held me captive and sucked me in like a vacuum.
I somehow remarkably escaped the cold office without any follow up appointments and I rejoiced in the dentist-free 6 months to come. As a reward for going to the dentist, my amazing, loving parents took me to my favorite place: Chuck E. Cheese. I was in my glory playing ski ball and eating pizza that tasted like cardboard with cheese that never melted. As I took another bite, I admired the new plastic ring i purchased for 100 hard earned game tickets. I glanced at my smiling parents thinking how happy I was to be at my favorite place with my great family. Then came the news: “Honey, we talked to the dentist today and he said you need braces” . My throat began to close as the cardboard pizza went down hard, leaving skid marks on my esophagus. I retorted “well of course you told him that you weren’t going to make me get them, right?” Their silence answered my fear-filled question. I couldn’t believe what was happening. My own parents were betraying me! Selling me out to the teeth murderer. I was innocent, trusting and naive enough to think my own parents would never will for me to endure pain. Much less PAY for it! Suddenly the pizza and the ring were overshadowed by the nightmare that played through my head. As the conversation went on, I learned I wasn’t just getting the basic package, I was getting “the works”. Pulled teeth, rubber bands, and even the friend repellant apparatus to fix my under bite, which I refused to wear. I was a “special” case…for seven dreadful years!
It was about as bad as I had anticipated. By the time I reached high school my patient folder was thicker than a phone book and I was on the third volume. Even the concrete impression of my teeth was decaying after so many years of siting in his glass case that was meant for trophies. There were so many stages of the process that were excruciatingly painful. I remember my mom telling me whenever I would complain that I would that them one day. My reply: NEVER!
Flash forward to adulthood. The one thing I am constantly told is that I have a beautiful smile. It was at an Emmy party not too long ago that a guest told me that my teeth were beautiful and I should thank my parents for either really good genes or getting me braces. It was then that my dear sweet mom’s comment reverberated in my head and I knew what I had to do. I called my parents the next day and officially thanked them for choosing the painful road of braces because they were wise enough to know that a beautiful smile is worth the pain and humiliation to endure for a little while. I hate to admit it, but they were right. How much more God knows what is best for us, even when it involves pain and a sense of betrayal. His heart for us is good and we can’t always understand His plan when we are going through an undesirable season or even decade. But in due time, we will see that he does work all things together for good…And that makes me smile.
Proverbs 3:5 “Trust in The Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your path straight”
Romans 8:28: God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.